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Merriam Webster Dictionary defines poise as:
Easy self-possessed assurance of manner: gracious tact in coping or handling; b: a particular way of carrying oneself
I particularly like the "easy self-possessed assurance" as a particular way of carrying oneself. That is the essence of the poise I am talking about. That falls right in step with the comfortable in your own skin concepts I teach and coach. This poise is deeper and so much more beneficial to success than the drama played out when we can't keep our egos in check. When you encounter or see [url=http://www.jordanpascherofficiele.com]air jordan[/url] someone with poise you know it even if you can't quite name it.
You might wonder - how can I get some of that?
As I see it poise is made up of: * How you feel and what you believe about yourself * Your ability to create space in which to respond vs. react * Being grounded enough to just be still and maintain composure at peak moments and high pressure situations * How you show up and carry yourself throughout your life's moments
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Responsibility is literally the ability to respond. That means responding (empowering) versus reacting (dis-empowering) to life's events and the people around you. Have you ever had an emotion fueled knee-jerk reaction and then totally regretted it? (Haven't we all?) That is the trap of reacting [url=http://www.mxitcms.com/tiffany/]tiffany outlet[/url] in a nutshell. Someone says something or something happens and you get a surge [url=http://www.rtnagel.com/airjordan.php]jordan pas cher[/url] of initial emotion and [url=http://www.mnfruit.com/louboutinpascher.php]louboutin[/url] then unconsciously react by doing or saying something in return. Responding is the conscious version of reacting. You create space between the event and your response (even if it is just seconds) so that you can be at choice and do or say what serves the higher good of all involved.
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